Staying Calm


How Successful Individuals Stay Calm
http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2014/02/06/how-successful-people-stay-calm/

  1. They Appreciate How They Have
  2. They Avoid Asking 'What If?'
  3. They Stay Positive
  4. They Disconnect
  5. They Limit Their Caffeine Intake
  6. They Sleep
  7. They Squash Negative Self-talk
  8. They Reframe Their Perspective
  9. They Breathe
  10. They Use Their Support System

A Story about how to stay calm when others can make you Angry

One day the Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake!"

The Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man, "Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?"
The young man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift."

The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."
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